Saturday 20 September 2014

Defects makes you LEGEND..

Everyone in the world has some talents and weaknesses. Have you ever felt, "If I wouldn't had that weakness , I would have succeeded. I'm failing because of that defect".
Do you think your weakness is pulling you back?
Well, you should be happy that you have a defect.If you don't have any defects and you're thinking that you're perfect , no , you're not.
A perfectionist is not the person who don't have any defects but the person who uses even his defects in a positive way..
I think you're confused now.You may thinking what the heck he  is saying.
Whatever you think but its true.
Let me give you some examples.
There was a guy called Alfred Benhill.He was a cleaner in a church.The church had a rule that everyone who works in there should have education. But it was only for the workers who were in higher posts.So Benhills job was safe.There came a new officer , he made a rule that every worker in the church including cleaners , should have minimum primary level education.
Benhill was not ready to go to school again.He thought that he can't study again.
He was standing in a street and was scared, tensed.
At that time, he observed that there was no cigarette shop in that street.He took a risk and left his job and started selling cigarettes in that street.He put cigarette shops in every streets which don't have.
In 3 years , he became a millionaire. Someone asked him that he became a millionaire without being educated, what he may did if he was educated.
Benhill replied , he would have been cleaning the chairs and tables of church.Being uneducated made him a millionaire.
You may have heard of Benhill cigarettes.Now its not there but it was very famous at a time.

Take any Legends, they had a defect.
Einstein had dyslexia. While trying to come out of that, he became a genius.

Richard Branson was a highschool dropout. While trying cover his defect, he became a billionaire.

James Cameron was a truck driver. He was a dropout.While trying to come out of that, he gave two all time blockbusters.

You may have seen handicapped people archiving big things.That is because they have defects.While trying to overcome , they achieve big.

So if you have any defect then use it.There is nothing called trash.Nothing is waste.Whatever you have in you, is pure gold.You should have the eyes to see it and to use it...

Sunday 30 March 2014

Talent,Competition and Success : The coin with three faces


I saw many people saying that this is the world with full of competition if you want to survive here you have to compete..
There is an automatically received truth that life is a war and you've got a weapon called 'TALENT' to survive.Yes! Its true that everyone in this world have got a talent and their own specialty.
Well,what do you think a talent is?
What do you call a talent?
You may think that it is a weapon to compete with people to get success.Its a false notion.

When I was small , I was good in drawing.My mother and my teachers were always used to send me to competitions.For most of the time I failed in getting a place.
Its because there were boundaries, limitations..
Time limits,setting a subject for drawing were stopped me..
Everyone were came there only to be succeeded..In competitions I focused only to get a place not in work and that made to lose.

And when I draw for fun and for inner happiness, I always created a 'WOW!' art..It was because of there were no boundaries..

Now,with a bit more certainty I can tell that 'TALENT' is a specialty that makes you unique from others.
Which gives you an inner happiness.(For no reason!)
Nature has given us talent for this only..But we are using it in a wrong way..
Its not a weapon but its a tool for your heart or soul..
We've got it to play with,but we are using it for a war..
Talent should not have boundaries..

Inner happiness itself is the success..Its not in external things.People may call you a loser but if are happy with yourself then it is the real success.
People called Socrates a useless person.He was jobless.And the people who cursed him were completely cleared away..And he is still alive!..(It doesn't mean that we should be jobless.)
but he was happy with himself.

Einstein was not a billionaire.But he stands first among the people who pushed human race forward.
He did it for his satisfaction and not for success.

Success comes when you focused on work, not on success.It comes when you brake the limitations, and when you challenge the status quo.
Don't let the world to put a boundary around you.
And finally get success without competing..

Thank you for reading..

Sunday 16 February 2014

Take it easy,no matter what..

Take it easy

Hello guys,I'm Ajay Rao.
This is my first blog post.
So today I'm writing about how to take things easy and how to do things for self satisfaction...

Well..,you might have seen or experienced by your parents saying that study hard,don't waste time.

So, if you ever asked why?
They may have a notion that education makes your life secure.
 I didn't understood this ever.
I wondered many times..How could it possible..??
Whether life or education ever signed for a bond paper that it would make your life secure?
Ask some one who is graduated that if they had any practical applications of these stuffs..
Definitely they would say no.. 
I'm not saying that we should not have education.
But I'm saying that do the things for self satisfaction no matter what..
If you not like formal education then why don't you leave it??

Don't live in your comfort zone..I'm writing about only education because it is the only thing which does not let anyone to come out of their comfort zone..

How many of you are dare to leave your jobs which you hate,and start to find your own path..?

Why can't you take your life easy?? This is because education gives you a false notion of security..

You find security in owning house,in salary,etc etc..
As you owning these things,your responsibility is doubles..That means you are living more unsecured life..
Because you don't know when your house will be robbed..You can't sleep..
Do you want these kind of life?
Then is there any wrong in taking risks and coming out of your comfort zone??

So why don't you take it easy?
Why do you fear for future?

If you settled in life or not ,but death will definitely come to hug you one day..
No one can escape from it..

I'm not saying that we should live our life without aim..
But live your life without commitments which always pull you from doing what your gut says..
 Do the things which you're passionate about.Which you love..Which gives you self satisfaction..
Self satisfaction is only the purpose of life..

Is there any thrill in being settled?

If you are not having house or not settled,you are free to live in any corner of the earth..
Is there any excitement in being safe,staying in same place?
 Its not mean that we should not have our own house..

There is an awesome quote saying that ship is always safe at sea shore but its not the purpose for which it is built..
So come out of your comfort zone..Rebel against the system..
Do what your heart(or soul) says..
Sleep under stars, at least one night..Do adventures.Do the professions which are not yours...

Finally, live fullest.. 
This may sound strange for you.But trust me I have experienced it..

Then what else be the reason behind posting this on my blog..?
I promise,I never write a line before this..
I never thought I would write some day..

I did this because I love doing the things which are not my cup of tea..
That's what makes me feel satisfied before I go to my bed..
And I deeply fallen in love with my life..

So thank you guys for reading..And you can send your feed backs through email (krrao.rao@gmail.com)  .
Since this was my first blog post..You may felt this boring..But don't give up reading my blog..

I'll meet you with another blog post in next week..
Hope you liked this..